Love and Hate

I'm a Gay, Fat, Balding, Democratic, Jewish, Disabled man.  If only I was black too, I'd be practically every discriminated group all in one.  The only one of those titles that I actually chose was to be a democrat and a proud one I am. Now some would beg to differ with me as to whether being Gay was a choice or not.  I can tell you with every ounce of conviction...It's not a choice that I ever had to make.

From my earliest memories I remember feeling different.  Never interested in sports, usually playing in classes with the girls.  My first crush was a tie between Greg Brady and Keith Partridge. I was always a chubby kid, so when It was time to date..I had no problem because nobody was really looking to date me.  When it came time for my Dad to teach me about the birds and bees, I had never even cared where babies came from.  The whole thing made no sense to me.  I think eventually my weight became a way to not have to deal with a relationship and being gay.  I will go more into my coming out process another time.

There are 2 big stories regarding homosexuality that I want to talk about in this blog..The Military's witch hunt with "Don't ask, Don't tell" and Gay Marraige.  To be truthfull,  at times I wish I wasn't gay...but It is who God made me. And God knows better than me Why he made me this way...and frankly, It bothers me that people use God's name to urge hate against me.  If a soilder is willing to die for his country, then he should not be forced to lie to his country.. By the way, Isn't lying a sin..

As for Gay Marraige, How would my getting married, affect any other persons life.  My love is as true and legitimate as any straight persons. How would straight people feel if their Government told them who they could or couldn't marry.  Well, hey, lets put it up for a vote...While we are at it...All obese people can no longer be parents..since they are a danger to children and will not give them healthy food.  Ridiculous huh...

Hate and discrimiation are ugly!  Love and Kindness is Beautiful!  Next time you have to vote on others rights. Try thinking how it may feel to be on the other side.

Have a great weekend!
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